As someone who works for myself, I rely heavily on networking to meet potential clients and colleagues.
When I first started working for myself and attending networking events, I was terrible. I was looking for contacts and potential customers, so dollar signs were all I had in mind. It did not occur to me in those early days how little anyone cares about what I do for a living, and how little anyone wants to be thought of as a dollar sign. Until I started to meet people who communicated with me that way.
I forgot, or had never learned, that networking is just really meeting and connecting with people.
As I’ve progressed through almost six years of working for myself and networking along the way, my skills have improved. Now I understand so much more about making connections, my elevator speech and when (and when not) to use it, my personal brand, and most importantly, how to learn about the needs and wants of the individuals I speak with when I am networking (and even when I’m not).
Am I perfect? Nope. And I don’t plan to ever be.
With the evolution of the market, technology, social media, and who knows what to come down the pike, I plan to keep fine-tuning my skills. It isn’t really that much work, though.
Because in the end, networking is the simple art of talking and connecting with people. I understand that now.